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July '05 7/26/05 ~ Not your average bear I sent hot cop, henceforth possibly referred to as "girlfriend," some flowers this week. It was a nice arrangement of orange roses and daisies delivered directly to her place of employment. She said she was shocked when she walked in from her daily rounds of busting criminals and was told that they were for her. Apparently she has never received flowers from a boy before so she was more than pleasantly surprised. She expressed much thanks, how nice it was, that it was not necessary and I told her it wasn't about necessity or looking for thanks, that I did it because it is what I wanted to do and because she was worth the effort. Three days and counting until her visit, I can't wait. 7/21/05 ~ I'm dirty
7/20/05 ~ I kissed a girl, her lips were sweet Had another nice weekend with the family up north.. and finally got to make out with hot cop. I find that I am different with this girl than I have been with most girls of late, like I have reverted to my high school self. Things are moving slow, anticipating that first kiss and working up to it rather than just going in right away. I don't have the normal urges to push right toward getting her in bed, it's kind of scary, but in a good way. She's a tall drink of water, her legs go on for days, slim, tone, and sexy. One of the things that I like the most is that every time I talk to her on the phone she is always in a good mood from the word Hello, her voice just beams like a a ray of light. She has her shit together, she has a home, a solid job, is slightly frugal with money like I am.. well probably more so than me even. So many good things to say, but as usual there are always some question marks.. and more so since I have been through a marriage once already, I'm a little more picky this time around. Some of my concerns are that she may be a little too conservative in a couple ways. I don't know how she will be in the bedroom.. I need a woman who can be aggressive, adventurous, and take control now and then and I just have this feeling that it's not there.. but I don't know for sure, maybe she too has reverted to her high school self and is taking things slower. Another area that concerns me is that she seems really reserved in her desire to do sporting things like snow boarding, mountain biking, and so on and so forth.. she claims she is clumsy and it seems like she is easily embarrassed. These things are still an unknown obviously and things that can be worked on, so far I don't really see them as a sticking point for not starting a relationship with her. I must think quite highly of this girl since I am now making footnotes of the fact that I attended a drunken Pig Roast all day Saturday and a Kid Rock concert on Sunday. Sheesh, what has come over me. 7/11/05 ~ Long Weekend Brennan's birthday was the 10th so I had planned to spend some time up north with the family. We headed up Wednesday after I got out of work and it was a busy weekend from the word go. I got to my mom's house a bit after 7:30pm and we rushed out to eat and then hit up the movies and saw Herbie, Fully Loaded. Not so great of a movie but Brennan liked it and.. well.. Lindsey was nice to look at. Thursday was a tad slower, went for a bike ride, got some ice cream, played on the playground, then after dinner we went to my cousins house and I played horse shoes while Brennan played with his cousins. We were out there from about 7pm to 10pm, lots of kids for him to play with. Along with playing horse shoes I got to hang out a bit with the hot cop my cousin is trying to set me up with. I have hung out with her a few times in a group setting over the last few visits up north and I'm really enjoying getting to know her. Friday was again action packed. Brennan and I went to the beach at about 11:30am on invitation from hot cop. We stayed there 'til about 1 when we had to depart because I had a golf outing to hit up and try out my new clubs. My sister watched Brennan while her husband, my brother, and I hit the links. I had a killer drive off the first hole but it all went south from there. I shot a 69 with the assistance of 3 beers and no food in my stomach. My brother had to leave when we finished but my brother-in-law and I decided to stick around and hit up another 9.. along with another 4 beers each. We actually golfed better the second time around even though we were slightly more intoxicated.. and we were honest to the stroke. I hit 57 and he got a 58. We headed back and had some dinner and then headed out for a night on the town. This was a pseudo date for me and hot cop but I had invited along my sister and her husband as well as the cousin who was trying to set us up. Things went well, we saw The Banana Convention at a bar in Charlevoix (this is a Saginaw band who has a member in it that I work with.) The night went well, we ended up hopping to a few other bars by the end of the night, some hand holding and caressing of the lower back were the highlights of the evening with hot cop. Saturday was no slow down in the action. We were celebrating Brennan's birthday today because it turned out to be more convenient. The day started with a visit to Raven Hill, which is like some history / wildlife museum in the area. It was opened by the science teacher who taught my brother and sister in high school and had a lot of interesting things to see. At 3pm we had made it to the lake where we were going to go swimming and have a cookout for Brennan's birthday. We swam 'til 5 and then ate some grub and opened some presents. Brennan made out big, a new fishing pole and tackle box, a moveable basketball rim from my parents, a new golf club and bag from me as well as some cards and money from others in attendance. After eating the kids all headed back over to the beach 'til about 8pm before we headed home. Sunday, Sunday, Sunday... my mom picked us up around 10am and we headed to Charlevoix for a sailboat tour that was starting at 11:30. Much to my delight the tour included a foxy captain named Nichole and her brother Josh. They were awesome, Brennan got to raise and lower sails and steer the boat. I was tempted to hit on Nichole as I was getting to know a bit about her but hot cop is going well enough so far that I didn't want to juggle too much. Besides she lives in Los Angeles right now and is only home for the summer helping out her father with the sailing thing. After sailing and lunch we got back to my dads, packed up the car, and did we head home?? NOPE.. we went to my aunts house for the regular Sunday volley ball games that my family has. I played volley ball while Brennan enjoyed more time with his cousins and we didn't end up rolling out of there 'til like 9:30pm. Brennan was out like a light within the first 5 miles and I enjoyed a long quiet drive home. We arrived home around midnight, got in bed and woke up bright and early today to start out our normal week of daycare and work. 7/02/05 ~ Well I think that I just ... I just wanted to take a moment and say thank you to the person that I consider my best friend because she is just so darn swell. I don't get to talk to her as much as I used to because her life has become pretty hectic but I think about her just as much and if I need her I know I can just give her a ring on the tele. She's a great girl and has so many qualities that I hope to find in a future relationship. She likes to cook, she's sporty, she has a great personality, always there to listen to my ramblings (even the perverted guy ones), she's sexy, flirtatious, honest, sincere, caring, nurturing ... I could go on all day. Thanks for always being there, your the best. I can't wait for the day that we can sit down across the table from each other and have a nice cup of coffee and talk in person. ... Now it's closing time, the music's
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